any brides out there that are older? i am not talking or saying we are "old" but i am 40 and this will be my second wedding. lots have changed since the first one. i have changed!

we arent in a "rush", i am not pregant! haha! but also i am finding that my finace is also not in a RUSH. he seems to keep putting things off. we agreed we would not have a huge wedding and spend most of the money on having fun with our friends instead of spending the money on the extras that usually end up in a box anyways.

we had planned that this weekend was the weekend since most of our friends are getting together anyways. big party with lots of food and an band. the lead singer in the band is also a minister...how much more convient is that? but then my finace decided he wanted to get married in the church his grandparents were married in. then now he wants to wait till october and get married in deadwood sd. whats up with that? my wedding gown will have thermal underware under in instead of a sexy bra and panty set!

i was wondering how other brides in my "age category" are handling their weddings especially if they are 2nd or 3rd weddings.